energy

So back to energy: What if something is neutral? Neutral is far more painful than negative. Recently I let something go – it was close to me, daily, it became habit, thus easy, which I interpreted as comfortable, but I was wrong. Comfortable equates to safe - and what was really happening to me, is I was settling, which can be the most dangerous act of all. It was the expected… and with unchanged actions, I assumed positive energy, but the truth… with stagnation eventually arrives maggots, and so neutral shouldn’t be ignored, it should be discarded, and quickly.

Placidity while easy, isn’t… it can become stubborn and dull, no longer providing us with adequate and supple support, invigorating us, challenging us to pursue, pause and catch our breath, barely giving us reason to keep breathing. Energy is contagious...

Neutral is almost worse than negative, neutral is void of energy. With negative you’re aware it’s bad, there is a void in positive, there is something oppositional to reach out to – but it is hard to let neutral go, when you don’t know how to reach out to something better, especially when you don’t have a clue what that is... because your choices requires your energy....

It is so easy to run from terrible, negative energy is a poison we all recognize, but it is difficult to justify leaving something that isn’t so bad, rather, not good…. But sometimes that risk has to be logical enough …

Walking away doesn't mean you're exerting energy searching for something or someone better, all is means is now you’re open to finding it.


"The one who loves the least, controls the relationship."
-Robert Anthony

"He who falls in love with himself will have no rivals."
-Benjamin Franklin

Truisms. Either a waste of time, or can save you years of unhappiness, if you’re capable of untangling meanings, apply to your life, and then proactively alter your character to rid whatever about you is wrong. Now, Go!

- So, Love more and/or control less. Aka: aspire to be a doormat…
- So, Learn how to embrace your flaws. Aka: Cellulite is sexy… take up narcissism as a hobby.

NO. Each is saying that love; this pure magnetic energy is powerful and protective. Ben was a sharp guy, and he didn’t mean love will prevent you from enemies, but it sure as hell will keep you safe from feeling competitive.

Let's venture to my favorite, Anthony the MD venerable hypnosis says that he who loves the most, controls the least, right? Wrong. He is saying that the one in the relationship with the most love (selflessness) won’t have a dire strain to control, because love will take care accordingly, or so we’d like to trust… And yes, I’m a control freak – maybe I need to do a little more lovin’, eh?

Both above generally require therapy, gym membership, occasionally plastic surgery, and/or a healthy relationship. None come cheap monetarily, but more crucial, all require energy.